It is as it is. Observe how the mind labels it, and how this process sits in judgement, creates pain and unhappiness.Watch the mechanics of the mind-
you then step out of its resistance patterns, and you can then allow the present moment to be.
This will give you a taste of the state of inner freedom from external conditions- You will feel the state of true inner peace.
Accept then act- whatever the present moment contains, accept as if you had chosen it. always work WITH it not AGAINST it. This will miraculously transform your whole life.